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Rules for Disciplining Children in the Bible

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The Book of Sirach (not recognized by Protestants) contains several rules for raising children.

We will mention them to you for the benefit of all. Whoever has a comment, please do so:

Discipline

C-30-1 He who loves his son more than he beats him will be pleased with him in the end.

C-30-2: He who disciplines his son will reap comfort and will boast about him among his acquaintances.

C-30-3: He who educates his son will arouse the jealousy of his enemy and will rejoice in him before his friends.

C-30-4: If his father dies, it is as if he did not die because he left behind someone like him.

C-30-5: He saw him during his life and was happy, but upon his death he was not sad.

C-30-6: He left behind an avenger against his enemies and a rewarder of his friends.

C-30-7: He who pampers his son will bind his wounds, but at every cry his bowels will be disturbed.

C-30-8: The horse that is not tamed will become wild, and the son that is not disciplined will become impudent.

C-30-9: If you pamper your son, he will frighten you, and if you play with him, he will make you sad.

C-30-10: Do not laugh with him, lest you become sad with him, and in the end you will be overcome by gnashing of teeth .

C-30-11: Do not give him freedom in his youth.

C-30-12: Crunch his ribs while he is young, lest he harden and disobey you.

C-30-13: Discipline your son and strive to refine him, lest you suffer from his short life .

The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: He is not one of us who does not have mercy on our young, respect our old, enjoin what is right, and forbid what is wrong. Abu Isa said: This is a good, strange hadith. The hadith of Muhammad ibn Ishaq, on the authority of Amr ibn Shuaib, is a sound hadith.