Does Islam Attribute Adultery Children to the Husband? Refuting "The Child Belongs to the Bed"
The Child Belongs to the Bed — Refuting the Allegation of Mixing Lineages
- Response to the allegation that the child belongs to the bed and the adulterer is stoned
- The lie that Islam attributes the child of adultery to the husband
Response — Main Points
- Response to This Ridiculous Suspicion
- Point One — Islam Forbids Mixing Lineages
- Point Two — The Hadith in Its Full Historical Context
- Understanding the Story in Detail
- The Phrase “He Is Your Brother” — Is It Authentic?
- The Meaning of “The Child Belongs to the Bed”
- The Meaning of “Stone for the Adulterer”
- The Phrase “The Child Belongs to the Owner of the Bed”
Weak Narrations Analysis
- Weak Narrations That Cannot Be Relied Upon
- Weak Narration 1 — Amr ibn Shu’ayb Chain
- Weak Narration 2 — Yusuf ibn al-Zubayr Chain
- Weak Narration 3 — Rabah Chain
- Weak Narration 4 — Al-Suddi Chain (Al-Tabari)
- Weak Narration 5 — Disturbed Chain via Al-Muzani
- Weak Narration 6 — Al-Nasa’i Narration
- Weak Narration 7 — Al-Sha’bi from Omar
- Weak Narration 8 — Sinan ibn al-Harith Chain
- Narration of Imam Malik in Al-Muwatta
Second Topic
The enemies of Islam claim that the Prophet Muhammad ordered that we always attribute a child born out of wedlock to the husband, even if the child is not his biological father. The enemies of Islam cite the following narration as evidence for this claim:
“The boy belongs to the bed, and the whore belongs to the stone.”
Response to This Ridiculous Suspicion
Point One — Islam Forbids Mixing Lineages
- If we confirm that the adulterer (so-and-so) is the father of the child, then the child is attributed to him.
- If the husband is the child’s real father, the child is attributed to him.
- If we are not sure of the identity of the father and do not know which man is the real father, then we do not have the right to attribute the child to a man other than his real father. Rather, we treat the child as our brother in religion or our master.
Point Two — The Hadith in Its Full Historical Context
If we go back to the context of the entire hadith, we will find:
Here, the Prophet teaches us how to deal with a child whose father and lineage are unknown: we must consider this newborn as one of our brothers and clients without attributing him to anyone else.
Understanding the Story in Detail
- Zam’ah was a man in the pre-Islamic era who had children, including: (Abd ibn Zam’ah) and (Sawda bint Zam’ah) — who was the wife of the Prophet.
- Zam’ah owned a slave girl who served him, and this slave girl gave birth to a child in his house.
- However, Utbah ibn Abi Waqqas had previously committed adultery with this slave girl while he was a polytheist — as female slaves used to commit adultery in the pre-Islamic era of ignorance.
- Before dying, Utbah ordered his brother (Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas) to bring the child because he thought he was his son.
- Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas wanted to take the child from Abd ibn Zam’ah; Abd ibn Zam’ah refused, stressing the child was the son of his father Zam’ah.
- Both went to the Prophet, who ruled that the newborn be given to Abd ibn Zam’ah.
Reason Two: After Zam’ah died, this slave girl was taken into the care of Abd ibn Zam’ah because he was the new master responsible for her affairs. In the same way, the child would be with Abd ibn Zam’ah to take care of him along with his mother. The phrase “He is yours” does not mean the Prophet attributed the newborn to Zam’ah or Abd ibn Zam’ah — it means the Prophet gave the newborn to Abd ibn Zam’ah as his new master, responsible for raising him and managing his affairs.
The Phrase “He Is Your Brother” — Is It Authentic?
“Abu Abdullah al-Hafiz informed us, Abu al-Hasan ibn Subaih informed us, Muhammad ibn Ishaq informed us, Ahmad ibn Abd al-Rahman ibn Wahb informed us, my uncle informed me, Yunus informed me, on the authority of Ibn Shihab, Urwah ibn al-Zubayr informed me, that Aishah said: The Messenger of God said: ‘He is yours, he is your brother, O Abd ibn Zam’ah.’”
- Abu al-Hasan ibn Subaih: Unknown narrator
- Ahmad ibn Abd al-Rahman ibn Wahb: Confused, a liar, and weak
When Al-Bukhari narrated the same story on the authority of Al-Layth with a continuous chain of transmission in another place in his Sahih, he did not mention the phrase “He is your brother, O Abd.”
- Sahih Al-Bukhari 2048: “When they arrived in Medina, the Messenger of God established a bond of brotherhood between Abd al-Rahman ibn Awf and Sa’d ibn al-Rabi’.” — even though they were not brothers in lineage.
- Sahih Al-Bukhari 1968: “The Prophet established brotherhood between Salman and Abu Darda.”
- Sahih Al-Bukhari 30 (on the authority of Abu Dharr Al-Ghifari): “Your brothers are your servants. Allah has placed them under your control. So whoever has his brother under his control, let him feed him from what he eats and clothe him from what he wears.”
“And hide from him, O Sawda bint Zam’a.” So he never saw Sawda again.
This was confirmed by Al-Tahawi, Badr Al-Din Al-Ayni, and others.
- The Prophet did not attribute the child as a son to Zam’ah
- The Prophet did not attribute the child as a brother in lineage to Abd ibn Zam’ah
- The Prophet only made him a brother in religion and mercy to Abd ibn Zam’ah
The Meaning of “The Child Belongs to the Bed”
The Meaning of “Stone for the Adulterer”
The Phrase “The Child Belongs to the Owner of the Bed”
- By the same wrong logic: if a husband has sex with his wife on a hotel bed, the child would be attributed to the hotel owner.
- By the same wrong logic: if the husband spends the night with his wife in a house other than his own, the child would be attributed to the owner of that house.
- By the same wrong logic: a woman who gives birth in a hospital bed must attribute the birth to the doctor or hospital director.
Weak Narrations That Cannot Be Relied Upon
Weak Narration 1 — Amr Ibn Shu’ayb Chain
- Al-Dhahabi said his condition is unknown
- Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani said he is acceptable only in terms of evidence and follow-ups
Furthermore, this narration means that a person has no right to attribute to himself a child born into another family without evidence. Pre-Islamic people used to take the children of others and attribute them to themselves without proof.
Weak Narration 2 — Yusuf Ibn al-Zubayr Chain
Furthermore, the narration’s text is rejected: it claims the Prophet granted Zam’ah’s inheritance to this child — yet a Muslim does not inherit from a non-Muslim’s wealth, and Zam’ah died a non-Muslim. Also, the narration explicitly states the Prophet said to Sawda bint Zam’ah: “He is not your brother.”
Weak Narration 3 — Rabah Chain
Even if assumed correct, this narration does not command that the child be attributed to anyone other than his father. The child is either from the lineage of Rabah or from the lineage of John — in either case the child will be given to Rabah: if the child is Rabah’s offspring, he is raised as his son; if the child is John’s, he becomes a slave of Rabah since John is from the Mamluks of the Rabah family.
Weak Narration 4 — Al-Suddi Chain (Al-Tabari)
- Break in chain: Al-Suddi al-Kabir has a break between himself and the Prophet
- Al-Suddi: A lying Rafidi weakened by most scholars
- Asbat: Weakened by most scholars for mistakes and distortion of chains of transmission and hadiths
- Ahmad ibn al-Mufaddal: Scholars have said he made mistakes
Weak Narration 5 — Disturbed Chain via Al-Muzani
- Once narrated on the authority of (Yazid ibn Abi Ziyad) on the authority of his father — yet this Yazid does not narrate on the authority of his father, and his father is not among the narrators at all
- Once narrated on the authority of (Abdullah ibn Abi Yazid) — Al-Mazini Al-Basri, not authenticated by any of the ancients; only acceptable as a witness per Ibn Hazm
- Once narrated on the authority of (Ubaid Allah ibn Abi Yazid) — Al-Makki, trustworthy according to all scholars
The confusion and error in narrator names casts doubt on the narration. As for (Abu Yazid) — authenticated only by Ibn Hibban (who was lenient with unknown narrators) and Al-Ajli (whose authentications are disputed).
Weak Narration 6 — Al-Nasa’i Narration
Note also that this narration does not command that a child be attributed to someone other than his biological father. Rather, it states that a man has no right to disown his son without a reason — but if he sees his wife committing adultery with another man, he has the right to disown the child.
Weak Narration 7 — Al-Sha’bi from Omar
- Al-Sha’bi was born in Yemen in the late caliphate of Omar ibn Al-Khattab, and was young when Omar died — this narration is therefore interrupted (munqaṭiʿ): Al-Sha’bi did not hear Omar ibn Al-Khattab at all
- Jabir Al-Ja’fi: Weakened by most scholars; some called him a liar and considered him a Shiite Rafidi Sabaean who cursed the Companions; his hadiths via chain are not acceptable because he is a mudallis who used a chain here without explicitly stating he heard it
Weak Narration 8 — Sinan Ibn al-Harith Chain
Note also that this narration does not contain anything shameful — it says you must provide evidence that this boy is your son, not just words. The narration includes the phrase “unless evidence is presented” and says “the defendant is more deserving of the oath” — meaning the slave girl must first be interrogated to find out whether she committed adultery with this man, and whether she knows who the father of the child is.
Narration of Imam Malik in Al-Muwatta
Omar ibn Al-Khattab insisted on the right to attribute the newborn to his real father even if his mother was a slave and his father was a free man. Islam attributes each person to his father as long as his father’s identity is known.